I thought I would give an update as to what's going on in regards to my daughter. Her mom still will not press charges. So I am pretty much just putting that out of my mind as I do not need to continue to stress over it. I cannot control what she does with our children, so putting these things out of my mind is best for me. She has said yes to her coming down for a little bit over the summer. The two stipulations are that my wife and I pay for her to come down and go back completely and that my daughter is home by August 13th. She will not put any money out to help us. We have sat down and crunched the numbers and I just do not see how I am going to be able to do this. If we do nothing but driving it's well over $1200 to make two round trips including a rental car (my wife will not drive our car in case something happens), and a hotel room. If I combine flying and driving it's over $1000. If I do the flying with her (I would have to fly with her as the cheapest airline in order to fly alone you have to be 15 and she is 14) it comes out to $768.50 total. We just do not have that kind of money lying around. So I was ecstatic that my ex-girlfriend said yes and that my daughter was going to come here and spend some time only to come to the conclusion that we just cannot afford it. So now I am extremely depressed!