___________________________________________________________Look, when folks start changing the clear and evident meaning of words in scripture, based upon "God told me"-"pray and God will tell you too", then they proceed to act as if they are a teacher of the truth? I like to test such folks.. and expose them for what they are. Now to this point, I find no reason to believe that God "told you" anything as it relates to being "born-again", which is a teaching that goes to the very heart of true Christianity. In fact if you look at Nicodemus reply to the Lord, it is clear the word used by the Lord is BORN-AGAIN.
Joh 3:4 Nicodemus saith unto him, How can a man be born when he is old? can he enter the second time into his mother's womb, and be born?
So no, God did not speak to you on this issue as you have stated, and please don't try that sort of nonsense on me again.
We must begin by using context of the scriptures.
BORN (gennao): to be conceived; begotten; to come out of the womb.
AGAIN (anothen): from above; from God.
When does a person "come out" of a womb: is it not after nine months? (Somebody is going to want to say: "SEE! Brother Villa is now saying that you have to go to church for nine months before you can be a christian!") Nicodemus understood the Lord, for he asked, "How can a man be born when he is old? can he reenter his mother's womb, and be born?" The Lord Jesus was not speaking on "coming out of the womb", but being conceived of God.
A man is conceived of God, so that he may see His kingdom and "...choose therefore life, that both you and your seed may live."