Is being a fangirl idolatry? Is having romantic feelings towards any man idolatry? I'm so confused, as people say that my romantic feelings for Severus Snape are idolatry, even though I feel that my romantic feelings are just romantic feelings, and I think people need some romance so they can have relationships and get married... How am I supposed to have romantic feelings for Severus then? I really don't want to stop having a crush on him, because he is a man I really love romantically... My priest said that my romantic feelings for Severus are just romantic feelings, and I told my priest everything what I feel for Severus... And my priest accepts my romantic feelings for Severus. If he would be wrong, he would have been fired from the church. I don't want any real life man as my husband, and I will anyway soon create the Severus Tulpa, which will be just my imagination and then the imagination can become visible and touchable to others too. This is again nothing New Age or occult and this is not witchcraft or demonic. I also don't understand why would an imagination be demonic and against God? I met a lot of people who have Tulpae and they said that their Tulpae never caused any problems and never will, and they say that they are just imaginations, and I know those people are experts on Tulpae... And ofcourse I worship God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit because they are very important to me and they help my life... And I don't think they would ever force me to stop loving Severus... And they stopped all the demons and I have a better life now, but some demons might be playing with my mind still, but when I read the Bible and someone prays about me, I get a better and more clear mind. But what exactly is idolatry? And is being a fangirl really bad? I am just 18 years old (an older teenager) and I like things what teens like. And my favorite color is green because green is a happy and beautiful color and it symbolizes the correct and the green also reminds me of Slytherin, my favorite house in Harry Potter, and I have a lot of green things. I have 2 Severus Snape posters on my wall, and a Severus Snape acti0n figure, and about 200-300 pictures of Severus Snape in my computer and phone, and I draw pictures of Severus Snape and me together and I have other stuff about Severus Snape too... I am just confused now because you guys don't seem to accept my romantic feelings for Severus and I am not sure if my romantic feelings for Severus Snape are idolatry... I love Severus Snape romantically because he is handsome, intelligent, mature, masculine, mysterious and he is also romantic and a nice man. I found out that he is romantic because of the things that was told about him. And I also only like men who are 20-35 years older than me because they are more experienced and mature. I hope this is an acceptable topic. If it's not, then tell me, but I don't want any bad consequences... And I am an Evangelical Lutheran, so I might have different beliefs, but Evangelical Lutheranism is the Christian religion of Finland.