Would you be reacting in the same way had you found out your daughter was a compulsive liar who had built her life and gained a high position in a company based on a web of lies and deciet? What if your daughter was a thief who liked shoplifting or she enjoyed sleeping with a different man every week? Would you still be coming on to a forum and making these same comments?
Humans grade sin, we see it in our laws and ever changing morals within society. Christ told us that just thinking about something is same as killing them, so to God, just getting annoyed with someone and thinking "I hate you" is no different to someone walking into a school and killing a couple of dozen children with a gun.
Your daughter is homosexual, but I say so what, no I have not been brainwashed by militant homosexuals, quite the opposite in fact, I refuse to play into thier hands by not making such an issue or fuss about it. As our social morales change, they also effect our law and government , which has a knock on effect with the other great institutions of family ,church and eduction. Over past 50 years or so the homosexual movement has managed to turn evil into good in eyes of society, which of course is now coming into legal effect in the Western world, the result, a new battleground to attack the Church and Christianity.
Homosexual movement is the main battleground in the attack against God and Christians. As a result we see a mass hysteria emerging on both sides, to point where a Christian hearing someone is homosexual, then act as if they are standing in front of Satan himself, which of course just simply gives more ammunition to all the enemies of God, which allows them to shout BIGOT and claim "A God who hates me for what I am is not a God I want to know" and so on. Christians must stop playing into these peoples hands.
Your daughter will be going to hell for rejecting Christ, not for being homosexual. There are many Christians who are still involved with homosexual relationships, if they are going to hell for doing that, then we are all going to Hell and heaven will be very empty place, because if one Christian who has accepted Christ is then shut out for committing a sin, then we all will equally guilty and equally barred from heaven, as I already have shown at the start of this post that we all sin everyday and that God does not grade sin, instead guide people to know Christ and walk in his shadow and along his path, its only then people can break addictions and be freed from sin.