I am dealing with an issue with a young churched lady in her early twenties. She seems to appreciate my point of view -- to a point. I am wondering what excuses are used among the churched for having sexual relations outside of marriage. What Scriptures do they use to justify themselves? The conversation will come up. I am baffled by this. Any help will be appreciated -- help from those who believe the Bible says to wait and help from those who think the idea is antiquated. Thank you.