Please tell me - Am I wrong by doing this? Actually I have a bunch of confusion in my mind regarding this problem. But I would sum it up to be like this: Am I wrong if I had to reject or keep reasoning whenever one or more friends of mine would invite me to visit their church just because of a person whom I can barely cope with is in the same church? Specifically, it's a fellowship group (or whatever you call it) in where you share about the Gospel, so there won't be too much people as in common church service. Note that I don't hate nor mad at him, I think I just too understand this person and there are some of his attitudes that I can't stand. And the more frustrating things are: He's also one of my colleagues who sometimes drives me crazy when he does things that troubled me but don't even matter for him, in fact he thinks those things are good, yet I felt like being pushed to do something! Do I have to reject the invitation just because of this guy? But I need to have a community of believers in where I can bear fruit and have my faith grow... I hope this is the right section to share. I would appreciate it very much if you would respond! God bless you!