Love - ! - ? - A Pastor colleague of mine recently was councelling an elderly couple. He met with them individually and the lady said that her husband of 47 years never says that he loves her and she was very hurt. The Pastor then met with the husband and mentioned to him that the wife was hurt because he never tells her that he loves her. The elderly husband then said, "I told her I loved her 47 years ago... and if I change my mind, she'll be the first to know..."