Comparing yourself to others is actually a good thing! By via Dolarossa
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When we compare ourself to others we can get jealous or envious and feel some kind of pain. It’s horrible. So many times I’ve been there. But God has a plan when you feel this way.
Because When you see people who makes you feel bad about yourself All you have to do is ask God in faith to change the lens your looking through.
Like, try this lens…
how would things be if you were them?
Ok, not so fast…..maybe you cannot possible imagine being them yet but you wouldn’t mind to experience what they are experiencing…. Because to you they seem happy and at ease and you want to be happy and at ease too.
But once you start to imagine experiencing what they are experiencing you may find yourself feeling very uncomfortable because you have these stupid fears and beliefs and uncomfortable feelings pop up….
enough to be able to stop you from really wanting those experiences in the first place or you may crave them sometimes but because you can’t get past your fears you log out from them.
We all have or are working with fears and thoughts. Things like:
“I’m not good enough” “He/she’s not good enough”
“They’re too good for me”
“I am weak” “I am a loser” they are weak or a looser”
I am unlovable” “No one likes me” or “they are unlovable and I don’t like them”
“I am bad” or “ they are bad”
“ I just can’t do it” they just can’t do it”
“I don’t deserve it” “I am worthless” “ they are worthless” etc…..
Yes, and those people you see who are having those good experiences you so desire, they either have them fears and feelings and thoughts too or did have those similar thoughts and feelings once. It’s just that they worked/ or are working through theirs. Maybe they have even reached their spiritual milestones and are further than you are in their walk.
So Once you have uncovered which belief is lurking beneath your consciousness , jealousy/ envy then turns to Inspiration and that’s when Gods power really can get to work in you to help you transform your mind( beliefs about yourself, others and the world) and then What happens is you then start to see the Power of God working in you to bring you closer to what you want.
So comparing yourself to others can really be the start of a good thing!
Amen.
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Thanks for reading and God Bless
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When we compare ourself to others we can get jealous or envious and feel some kind of pain. It’s horrible. So many times I’ve been there. But God has a plan when you feel this way.
Because When you see people who makes you feel bad about yourself All you have to do is ask God in faith to change the lens your looking through.
Like, try this lens…
how would things be if you were them?
Ok, not so fast…..maybe you cannot possible imagine being them yet but you wouldn’t mind to experience what they are experiencing…. Because to you they seem happy and at ease and you want to be happy and at ease too.
But once you start to imagine experiencing what they are experiencing you may find yourself feeling very uncomfortable because you have these stupid fears and beliefs and uncomfortable feelings pop up….
enough to be able to stop you from really wanting those experiences in the first place or you may crave them sometimes but because you can’t get past your fears you log out from them.
We all have or are working with fears and thoughts. Things like:
“I’m not good enough” “He/she’s not good enough”
“They’re too good for me”
“I am weak” “I am a loser” they are weak or a looser”
I am unlovable” “No one likes me” or “they are unlovable and I don’t like them”
“I am bad” or “ they are bad”
“ I just can’t do it” they just can’t do it”
“I don’t deserve it” “I am worthless” “ they are worthless” etc…..
Yes, and those people you see who are having those good experiences you so desire, they either have them fears and feelings and thoughts too or did have those similar thoughts and feelings once. It’s just that they worked/ or are working through theirs. Maybe they have even reached their spiritual milestones and are further than you are in their walk.
So Once you have uncovered which belief is lurking beneath your consciousness , jealousy/ envy then turns to Inspiration and that’s when Gods power really can get to work in you to help you transform your mind( beliefs about yourself, others and the world) and then What happens is you then start to see the Power of God working in you to bring you closer to what you want.
So comparing yourself to others can really be the start of a good thing!
Amen.
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Thanks for reading and God Bless
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