Hey LearningToLetGo;
Choices such as sinful choice is cancerous. Where does it come from? It can start with a small dose of behavioral sin (with or without a loved one knowing.) Behavioral sin can lead to stronger sin like thoughts that can produce anger, jealousy, rage, a broken mental well being and escalate to physical abuse or murder.
Choices such as mistakes that humans make. Mistakes happen and is decided between two choices. We all make them and don't know how to deal with our mistakes or we cannot get past our mistakes.
Choices such as obedience, choosing right from wrong takes discipline that most all humans can develop. So when we make mistakes the discipline is acceptance, learning and growing from it. When we sin, the obedience includes repentance and minimizing that specific sin in the future.
The first two points usually expose us as much as we attempt to keep within our inner cup.
These are very fundamental, Jason, and what you posted can have a larger range of answers.
God bless you, brother.
Bob