So something very heartbreaking has just happened that I would like sum advice on particularly from men. For the past 5 months I've been hanging out/ getting to know a guy from my church. Nothing serious just enjoying each other. However he has really been showing a strong attraction to me...talking to me all day everyday, wanting to spend a lot of time with me out and about, taking me on dates, etc. Everything women love from a man. But bcuz I've been trying to keep things under control I've been pulling back a lot and being very distant with him but he knows I like him, I just haven't been wanting to do too much with him outside of a relationship. Well about a wk ago he called and revealed to me that he has started liking someone else and that she likes him back..they are not a couple but he is open to it being more and wanted to tell me b4 anything happened since he cares a lot for me and has feelings for me. He still wants us to engage with each other like we've been doing but IF he gets involved with her things btw him and I would of course end. Him and I are completely diff and there have been and still are issues and things to be worked out for us to be together so that's why we haven't gotten to that point yet. However, I can't handle engaging with him knowing he has this other woman in the picture...and now I'm realizing how much he means to me and that I'm ready for us to take that next step. But if he's not ready/interested then I feel it's time for me to move on. Thoughts??? Thanks