Your views on initially pursuing a relationship? My (Christian) female friends always tell me that I should never be the one to make the first move in starting a relationship because I'm the girl. What do you think God thinks about this? Do you think this is the way He meant it-for a man to pursue? I kind of understand where they're coming from. I joined a Christian dating site and if I'm the one to contact the man, and he "shoots me down" as they say, I get slightly hurt cause I'm so darn sensitive sometimes! I wonder if this is how guys feel as well. Just wondering what the difference is. My friends feel strongly about me not pursuing. What are your thoughts?