What can I do now? Hi everyone I have been struggling some time now over my current situation in my marriage. I have recently been married to my husband this past April we have been together for about 3 yrs now. My husband is a truck driver and because of this he is often gone for long periods of time. I usually see him about 1 week out of the month at the most. This has always been going on even when we were dating and I knew this going into the relationship. I have been dealing with it as best I can but I feel that I can no longer take the stress and heartache that comes with knowing that my husband doesn't spend enough time at home and even that I may have made a mistake in marrying him altogether. I have approached him about getting a local job so that he can be home with my and my kids but every time I bring it up he just says that he cannot leave his job for a local job because then he would not make enough money. The way I feel about it is that I rarely have a husband because we don't get enough time together and he is unwilling to make any sacrifice in order to nurture and take care of this marriage. I have spoken to the pastor who married us and he feels that I should kick him out of the house until he is willing to make this marriage a priority in his life instead of his job or finances. I just don't know what to do anymore I have been praying about this for a long time and every time that I approach him he just wont' see things my way and will not compromise. My husband also does not have a relationship with God. He says he believes in him but I don't feel that that makes you a Christian at all, and so I feel like I may have made a mistake in marrying him. I don't want to go and get a Divorce because I have made a Covenant before God and I plan on keeping it. So I am really at my wits end about this situation and I need for him to make a change because I cannot continue to live this way any longer. Any Prayers and Ideas as what I should do will be appreciated.