I am divorced late twenties with two small children. I love my Church and volunteering as well. I have a problem a leader in the church , married w/ children in his early forties; is constantly staring at me even in front of his wife and kids. This of course makes me uncomfortable, it's not just glancing its staring/glaring when I look his way he looks away quickly or stares at my face blankly his wife also seems bothered by it once during the annoucements at church I could feel him staring at me while he was sitting w/ his wife she just burst out crying and he seemed to stop the rest of the church service. it not just staring he's always around if I'm teaching he's there if I'm parked in a certain area of the parking lot he's there. I think this has caused some of the women at church to give me the cold shoulder.When this first started he wouldn't do it in front of his wife and I felt flattered that this handsome older man gave me attention. Honestly I am attracted to him that's why I feel so guilty . How do I handle this and not let it interfere with my church life and focus on Christ. I would never entertain his advances but he hasn't made any for me to reject.