I never thought that this would happen to me, but I did. I fell in love with a man that is married and now I don't know what to do with myself. I am not his mistress and we've never had an affair, we're both God-Fearing Christians and neither one of us would let it get physical, but it is emotional. Our friendship was platonic in the beginning, but as we got to know each other, it became more serious. He shared details about his relationship with me; that the relationship wasn't a good one and that his wife had cheated on him several times with different men. They've tried many times to reconcile the relationship, but it never seems to work. I've also encourage him to stick in there and try to make it work for the sake of his family and God, but I know deep down he wants to get a divorce. I love him and I know he loves me, but it's so difficult because I know that we cannot be together. We try to avoid each other and not talk, but I see him once a week because of work. We talk about how much we want to be with each other, get married, and have children together, but it kills me everytime I think that it will probably never happen....To make a long story short, I would love for him to work out his marriage and for us not to feel the way we do about each other, but it is extremely difficult and I ask the Lord for forgiveness and that he will work out the situation. I really need some Godly advice, preferably from someone who has been in this situation or something like it. Or even from someone who can empathize with us. I'm very hurt and it's very hard for me to love someone that is totally off limits and that my thoughts and feelings for him are offensive to God.