The Girl I Like Ok this is gonna sound so generic and lame. But i really like this girl, and i have done ever since i first met her (which was like 3-4 years ago) and have had this amazing connection with her. Problem, i used to live near her, but now because of university i am 5 1/2 hours away from her. And i havent seen her in years. I really want to see her and be with her, but i know she wants to be with a strong Christian man, and well, im just not that strong. All i would want is to make her happy and enjoy being with her, and i know she has (at some point) felt the same way for me, but was discouraged by my faith (or lack of strength therein) My question is : Should i wait until i am more strong and sure in my faith, or should i go for it and hope that i will not discourage her?