Hey all. First of all please excuse my english as it's not my mother tongue, and sorry for the long message. But I really need advice on what to do in my situation. So here's my story. I am a strong Christian and I met a strong Christian online about a year ago. We live in different countries so we have never met by now. But we would both not mind a long distance relationship that is marriage oriented, if it's meant to be. To start I would like to say that I do absolutely trust him on the fact that he is a serious guy & he is very engaged with God. He cares a lot about others, spread the Gospel, read the Bible a lot and we also share a lot of things about our common faith, so I am 100% sure he is not a player or a liar. Since the beginning, I am VERY interested in him and I let him know quite early. His reaction was to tell me that he likes me too but that it's too early to go into a relationship for him. The months passed by and the situation evoluated a bit, he shows interest, initiate most of the contact, compliments me, and talks about the future sometimes. We talk on whatsapp almost every day and on Skype about 2-3 times a week. I asked him if he is talking to other girls and he said no, he first want to see where it goes between us two and is not willing to meet anyone else. But when I ask him where this is going, he say that he feels for me and that he has hope for a relationship in the future between us, but he was honest about the fact that he is not in love with me yet and that it takes more time for him to go there when you don't spend physical time together (meaning not online). He say that a serious relationship (and marriage) is possible between us but he can't rush things or know what the future holds right now. But he said many times that he likes me. We are supposed to meet each other this year. He also said that if he didn't want to be with me, he would have moved on already and wouldn't be talking to me all the time. He also said that he wants to go into a relationship only when he feels he wants to marry the person. I feel hurt in this situation and by the uncertainty on how things will turn out between us. I told him that, but he said he can't force things and he is moving at the pace that feels natural to him, which I also understand. I have some insecurities and as I am really into this guy, I am always stressing out about how things are going to turn out. I pray a lot about it asking God to lead me. I know the guy is serious & sincere, but I mean it's been a long time and I am really scared that I am just wasting time and feelings for something that will never happen, if no stronger feelings develope on his side. On another side, I think that God maybe wants to use this time to work on me and on my weaknesses, to be better prepared for marriage. Maybe I have too many expectations for someone I haven't yet met, and I don't want to be impatient but the thing is I am 27 years old so I don't want to waste YEARS before he takes a decision to make things a bit more certain about the future, especially since I don't know if it will turn out being positive or negative. My question is what would you do? Do you think I should just let him more time and see where it goes, or I am wasting time and I better move on? Thanks a lot for reading & advices. God bless.