In summary, I'm in a relationship with a man 10yrs older than me and there's a problem : His ex who is one year younger than him. Actually, they are not going out, but then they stopped talking after the break-up and then a few months later, they became "friends" again on facebook. I don't know to what extent they do communicate of late but everything that she posts shows she's still in love with him. He's also been a bit withdrawn of late. Not calling, or looking for me. Since we hardly see each other, there's no guarantee there's emotional fidelity between the two of us. Online, he gives the impression that his ex and him are quite close but i've not confronted him about the situation since we are all christians and we trust God to do his will. However, i feel very insecure and I think my relationship may go to shambles because of her. What should i do? Should i break up with him or should I continue the relationship, wait? I need counsel.