i meet a guy at church, we started dating. We get along very well, but there is obvisouly a very strong physical attraction. We started hanging out in his room and things eventually got out of hand, and we have engaged in sexual activity (not actual intercoursetho) on quite a few occasions. I eventually said i didnt think it was right, and he actually agreed with me, but since then we have gone back to it. I know this kinda of activity is wrong, and am trying to stop. But i even feel it is wrong to be so physically attracted to each other as christians?! But i guess this is normal and healthy, we are only human after all? one cannot help being attracted to someone? is this lust? can we make the relationship work? please help any advice from fellow christians on this matter, or people who have been in my situation.