Sex before marriage is NOT God's plan right? The man I've been with on and off for several years and "professes" to be a Christian does not share my belief about this. We've argued and broken up over this MANY times. He has even said "I'm not under the law, don't you dare put me under the law again or I'll never speak to you again". He calls me Moses and Aaron and a pharisee. He says if I feel bad about sex it's just condemnation and then reminds me that condemnation comes from the enemy and I shouldn't listen to it because I'm under grace!? I KNOW I'm not under the law. The 613 laws were given to the Jewish not me. I'm under the law of Christ. That doesn't make sex out of marriage ok, right? I'm not missing something here am I? God's Word is still meant to teach us how to walk our Christian life along with the Holy Spirit, right? I'm exhausted having been at this for years with him. He also says we're not married because every few months I"go crazy" and break up with him and that's a red flag for him. We break up because of our differences. He can quote scripture and knows names and places of who did what in the Bible so I just don't get it. We even went to the church for help but he didn't like what he heard and now quit going as he says "they are mixing law and grace". We are now broken up, again. I'm trying to be strong but I'd be lying if I said that was easy. I don't understand why it has been so hard to let go.