Saw this today, and I think it's a good demonstration of what happens when we get caught up in "the rules" and lose sight of what we're supposed to be trying to do. Atheist group saves Chickasha woman from Christmas nightmare So she goes online and describes her ordeal at the church, and an atheist group steps in and provides them with toys, food, money, and gift cards. Here's a case where the workers at the church lost sight of what they were supposed to be about, and instead over-focused on rules. As a result, an atheist group steps in, gets some positive press for themselves, and likely change this woman's perception of Christians and atheists forever. This is exactly the lesson Christ tried to teach to the Pharisees in Matthew 12:1-37. We should learn from this.