Well i will give some background first.I am 19 years old and i have been a Christian my entire life. I started dating my Girlfriend when i was 15 years old and we have been dating ever since and ( like every relationship) it has had its ups and downs. my girlfriend on the other hand does not have the same strong foundation in God. She is a christian as well but does not see the same views as i do as far as what is right and wrong based on our faith. Anyways, we love each other and have come a long way in the last 4 years but now she is at the point where she doesn't feel "in love" with me. I understand that she desires that feeling of in love like when we first started dating but love is not a feeling, feelings change and i tried to explain to her that real true love is a choice and an action. she doesn't necessarily agree with me. I love this woman to death and am trying everything i possibly can to show her that and to make our relationship prosper but nothing seems to work. she is more interested in being with her friends. I could really use some advice on what would help. I firmly believe despite everything that God put her in my life for a reason and that we can get through this phase and be happy together again. Any advice or input is highly appreciated.