PLEASE HELP. I am a Christian and I believe Christianity is of the utmost importance in life. However, I must confess I have not been an obedient Christian, particularly with regard to premarital sex. I've been dating a girl who I like very much. I think the world of her. We get along great. Everything is fantastic about the relationship except two things - first, she is agnostic...and second, we have had a very sexual relationship so far. She used to be very involved in her church several years ago, but was raped. She became pregnant as a result of the rape and aborted the child. She began having doubts and became agnostic. I want to get married one day, and I have always expected myself to be a more obedient Christian than I am...and that I would marry a Christian girl. I want and need a good Christian woman who will help hold me accountable. Despite knowing this is what I want and need, I have found myself dating this girl, who I love dearly. But we are now at a fork in the road. I don't know whether to continue dating her, hoping that she will become Christian (while working on my own obedience at the same time) . . . or if I should end the relationship, work on my own obedience, and hope she becomes Christian. I want to minister to her, but I'm not sure she would appreciate my efforts given my own shortcomings. I don't want things to end with her, but I feel like I need to marry a Christian woman. What should I do at this point?