STAFF EDIT: removed extremely sensitive personal data for safety and security and so replies may comply with Forum Rule 3.2d. I was casually dating this woman for 4 months. [ edit ] I'm unsure of her faith in God, as well as her overall intentions as she comes from a broken family and borderline homeless/poor. I believe she is lying to me often and I want to trust her. We are planning on getting religious counseling next week. My current spiritual situation is that I grew up in a Christian family, never really being a serious follower. Once I found out that [there were consequences in the relationship] I felt like my only outlet was prayer. The only positive I can make out of this situation is that I feel more committed to God than ever - which I hope it is not wrong to go to him in a time of trouble. I am also really unsure about whether God wants me to be with this woman for the rest of my life. Any [ prayer ] help would be appreciated.