Couple Does not Kiss until Wedding Day It's nice to read stories like this. This couple did not hold hands until they were engaged, and saved their first kiss until their wedding day. "We're just really trying to keep our relationship focused not on the physical but really just more on communication and continuing to learn more about each other," Jill has said. "We're saving our first kiss and things beyond that for our wedding." I guess they're from a show called 19 kids and counting. I've never seen the show, but I guess they are a Christian family that believes God should determine the number of children they have.