New And Could Use Some Support

Discussion in 'Fellowship Time' started by Chrys from Utah, Feb 19, 2013.

  1. I have really enjoyed reading the beautiful words of encouragement and praise here. I started reading the posts looking for help, and they have touched me. I have been married for eight years and I have two beautiful children. Two and a half years ago, the man who I choose to lead my family in Christ decided that he had missed out. He left me to pursue a worldly life, but a few months later, he begged to come back. He promised that he would come back to Christ when he was ready. I allowed myself to become invoked in his lifestyle, trying to save the marriage. I have missed the peace and safety. I've been trying to come back, but I can't live in Christ while his addictions are in my home and he constantly pressures me to participate. Everything I read says to hold on to you're marriage or talks about the woman being left. I can't serve God and be with him. Advise?
  2. Hmmmmm......

    It sounds like either there is the potential for a lot of backslidin behavior, or maybe you need to revisit the Gospel. I've done a lot of sinning in my life, if I can help you repent; I would be more than happy to discuss things with you. #1 Put your problems/ "addictions" in Christ hands. Go back to the foundation and rebuild. Please feel free to start a personal conversation with me if you wish. Do you have a Bible believing Church home?

    ...God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth. So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them... And God saw every thing that he had made, and, behold, it was very good. And the evening and the morning were the sixth day.

    Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God. ...Verily, verily, I say unto thee, Except a man be born of water and of the Spirit, he cannot enter into the kingdom of God. That which is born of the flesh is flesh; and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.

    For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

    For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved. He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God. And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, neither cometh to the light, lest his deeds should be reproved. But he that doeth truth cometh to the light, that his deeds may be made manifest, that they are wrought in God.

    This is my commandment, That ye love one another, as I have loved you. Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.

    Enter ye in at the strait gate: for wide is the gate, and broad is the way, that leadeth to destruction, and many there be which go in thereat: Because strait is the gate, and narrow is the way, which leadeth unto life, and few there be that find it.

    I am the way, the truth and the life.


    Jesus the Christ-Son of the Living God

    The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all.

    For all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.But God commandeth His love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.

    With Love,

    Paul-Apostle to the Gentiles
  3. Chrys,

    What do you want to do, what does that doubt and pain tell you you need to do. Whats the right thing by you, your children and by the sainity of your mind and heart.
    Chrys from Utah likes this.
  4. This makes me wish Bolt and Manda were here, they always had good insight for these types of situations. I have to leave for work shortly, but I'll try to get back to this tomorrow.
  5. Thanks. I really do need to read the Bible more and draw from His words to get through this. I want my kids to participate in my study and set an example by reading and living the truth.
  6. Start simple: I like John! I would say have some family time with a couple chapters of the Gospel.

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