I met a girl in 2010. We liked each other from the very moment we met. She came to my church on a mission trip. We talked for 2 years and got eextremely close. Our liking each other grew and grew. But we neveor pursued a relationship because her desire was to do mission work in other countries and my desire was to get a college degree and a career. she went to a bible school in another country for a year in 2013 and that is when we stopped talking. We mutually agrred to not pursue a relationship. Mind you, we kept everything in prayer for those 2 years. But it seemed like the best thing to do at the time. We decided that if it was God's will for us to be together He will ssomehow bring us back together and make our paths cross. She ended up having a relationship with someone during that year and I did too. But things didn't work out for the both of us. Now she is back from that bible school for over a year and we've started talking again. We feel the same way about each other. Our feelings are even stronger now. We both love God and want to honor Him on our relationship. We are older now, I've graduated college, she is in nursing school. Things are different than when we first met. We don't want just any relationship. We have spoke about how we can see each other being married and living for Christ together. We want a serious, no games relationship where we both honor God and grow in Him together. The only issue is that she still has the heart to do missions work long term. I don't. She probably won't do it for now because she is in nursing school. The question is simple, should we pursue a relationship and let God guide us? Or is it more prudent and smart to not pursue anything at all? I would prefer answers from married, and experienced people. Only because the bible states to get advicefrom older people.