My wife is currently involved in an emotional affair, I don't believe it has gotten any further than that at this point. She is completely unwilling to end that relationship. I have been standing firm for months now, and fighting for our marriage, she says she's has been to, but actions speak louder than words, I don't believe she's interested at all. Her relationship with this other man continues to grow, this man that she willingly let into our marriage, had the oppurtunity to make plenty of choices along the way, and chose him every time.. I have to now take control of the situation, she is just waiting for this man to make some kind of commitment, and she will be gone. I will not allow this adulterer to decide my fate. My wife is born again, and was very strong in the Lord, and now she's even turning her back on God, and putting this man above God, what chance do I have? I don't know what to do, ready to just pursue divorce, but do not want to go against God. Please help, thoghts and prayers are greatly appreciated, thank you God Bless!