I have ended more friendships than I care to think about. Now how do I ,"love the sinner. Hate the sin"? It's hard for me to do this because of those ended friendships , just because of things I wanted the person to do to make the friendship work to my advantage. And that's not me at all. I want to learn how to make the friendship work both ways, and me realize that no ones perfect. So, any AND all advice is going to be helpful.