After a fight between my mother & father turned physical, I told my mother (who lives out of state) to come stay with my husband & I. She stayed with another family member for a few months before flying in to stay with me. Initially, I was thinking it would be great to have my mom around helping out & for my kids to have their grandma here, while at the same time helping her leave a bad situation. Now, I just want my house & normalcy back. I should also mention I'm due to have a baby any day. It's not that my mother is doing anything rude. In fact, she cooks meals almost every day, will run any errands for me, & will do anything I ask. I just don't want her here all the time, especially when it's time to bond with my new baby. She has no plan for how long she's staying, no car, & at some point no money now that she's not working. I feel like it's my Christian duty to help her, but I feel bad for being so annoyed that she's here every day. I'm annoyed that she's in my kitchen every morning. I want my house to myself after the kids go to school. Even if she stays in her room, I am annoyed that she's here. I feel like I'm going to snap if she says anything to me! I think I have some major control issues over my house & my family. My husband loves my mom & this doesn't bother him one bit, especially since the dishes are clean every day! I just feel it is stressing ME out & I don't like who I am right now & how I feel about this. Is it unchristian of me to ask her to leave?