Welcome, William. We have a fairly standard forums format here so it shouldn't take long to become familiar with the mechanics of the site. If you haven't done so already, check out the Welcome pack - http://www.christianforumsite.com/categories/your-welcome-pack.104/ - which may answer some of your questions. If you have other questions, you can contact the staff and we will help you. Easiest way to do that would be to click on my avatar and, in the pop-up box, click "start a conversation" and we can go from there.
As for comfort, well, if you've ever battled over the thermostat with your spouse, you know how difficult comfort is to define or achieve. But I sincerely pray that you will find your time here profitable in any case.