I Don't Know If I'll Ever Trust Another Man Again...
Ever since my Dad cheated on my mother and has threatened to leave the family for no good reason, I don't know if I can trust men anymore. This is serious. I just am upset about the whole thing. My dad was the last man on earth I would ever expect to behave this way and my mother was a good wife and excellent mother and he will be the first to admit that...yet he still wants to leave because "he's never felt fufilled..." I just would like to ask, how is someone supposed to fufill or complete you?? No one can complete you. That is between you and God and my dad is supposedly... a God fearing man. Yet he says "he knows what God wants, God wants him to stay with his wife, but he doesn't know if he wants to listen to God." This is so unlike him and very disheartening. I just dont' know if I can trust men anymore, if it can happen to someone like my father who had been such a good provider all his life, and to just do something so hurtful stuns me. I feel like I can't trust any men now and I'm scared to get in a relationship ever with any, seriously. I may leave the country and adopt or something when the time comes. I just can't take this kind of stress. I keep people at a distance from me because I'm afraid things like this will happen. He has known my mother since they were 9, they never dated anyone else their whole life and now all of a sudden he is claiming he's never really felt "fufilled!" What kind of nonsense...!!! I'm so angry at him!!! Then I was thinking most of the time men cause these problems...why do men have to cheat??? So my question is...if God designed marriage for man and woman, why do so many men cheat though????? I don't get it, since the dawn of time men have done this, so then why did God give emotions that make it hurt so badly when it's always happened?? I jus dont' understand it
Ever since my Dad cheated on my mother and has threatened to leave the family for no good reason, I don't know if I can trust men anymore. This is serious. I just am upset about the whole thing. My dad was the last man on earth I would ever expect to behave this way and my mother was a good wife and excellent mother and he will be the first to admit that...yet he still wants to leave because "he's never felt fufilled..." I just would like to ask, how is someone supposed to fufill or complete you?? No one can complete you. That is between you and God and my dad is supposedly... a God fearing man. Yet he says "he knows what God wants, God wants him to stay with his wife, but he doesn't know if he wants to listen to God." This is so unlike him and very disheartening. I just dont' know if I can trust men anymore, if it can happen to someone like my father who had been such a good provider all his life, and to just do something so hurtful stuns me. I feel like I can't trust any men now and I'm scared to get in a relationship ever with any, seriously. I may leave the country and adopt or something when the time comes. I just can't take this kind of stress. I keep people at a distance from me because I'm afraid things like this will happen. He has known my mother since they were 9, they never dated anyone else their whole life and now all of a sudden he is claiming he's never really felt "fufilled!" What kind of nonsense...!!! I'm so angry at him!!! Then I was thinking most of the time men cause these problems...why do men have to cheat??? So my question is...if God designed marriage for man and woman, why do so many men cheat though????? I don't get it, since the dawn of time men have done this, so then why did God give emotions that make it hurt so badly when it's always happened?? I jus dont' understand it