I am married for about 9 years now (on sept.) My husband met a woman and they became friends. At first, i had a bad feeling already but i ignore it. maybe i was just jealous. suddenly, i saw a lot of changes about my husband. He would always mention the name of this woman. talk about her that i really dont want to hear anymore. she would take her home, bring her fruits when she was sick and visit her home. it causes a lot of fights and tears. he tried to avoid that woman, delete her number but after few days he called her again. then one time my husband said that he is inlove with her. i have asked him many times if he felt something for her, and he said no. i was devastated! i thought i was just insecure but my intuation was true. we are trying to settle everything now. but when he cant talk to that woman, he is always sad. he seems so unhappy with me. he said i should give him time to forget. but they are still talking. he said it was a friendly talk but he is acting strange everytime he talks to her. i dont want to throw away the nine years of our marriage. he said he wants to keep this "female friend" of him. he is not happy without her (i think). and i am not happy having this woman in my husbands life. they are having an emotional affair. (i guess). i dont know if i am going to give up my husband and let him be happy or save our marriage. thank you for reading.