Husband's are head of household Question... My husband suffer from a traumatic brain injury. He is able to walk, talk, and so forth.. It happen ten years ago. However he has short term mermory, reading difficulties, mood swings, speaking out of subject and problem solving etc. Each year it seem's the problems are getting difficult. He is unable to keep jobs because of constant seizures. So he usually gets fired. He does not want to share with his christain brothers or sister regarding his difficulties. Between my six year old daughter and him. I am constantly drained. I feel alone and guilty because sometimes I feel I should take the lead in the household as head because of his difficulties. I feel embrass because my fellow christain brothers dont know his condition and may judge me as not a real professing christain wife because constantly I am driving us around or constanly speak up for him. Should I take the lead in my family ( do the husband role of making decision ? or leave it up to my husband who has these difficulties? What would jesus want me to do? what is my family life lesson?