I'm looking for some support and advice. My husband wants to move 12 hours (driving distance) away. His company is moving and he wants out of the snowy north. I can't say I blame him, he does have many good reasons for wanting to leave. However, I will be giving up my job (which carries the benefits and pays slightly more) and -the most hardest of all- is leaving behind my family. I want to be supportive of my husband and I know it would be a good experience just to do something different, but I'm terrified of leaving my family behind. I love them so much. I think of everyone getting older and I know how short life is. He has his heart set on leaving just as much as I have my heart set on spending time with my family and it's like I know this is something we have to do, but I'm having a hard time coming to terms with it. He understands my emotions and is encouraging me to get a job with flexible hours so I can visit as I need and he even suggested we save money so my mom could eventually move down near us if she so desired. It's just the hardest step I've ever had to make, any support anyone can give would be truly appreciated.