So you want to meet the perfect person? THE so called SOUL MATE.. huh, do ya. Well, first make a list, yep I did. color of hair, skin eyes etc skinny fat inbetween, tall short etc. and all the other stuff. are you talking to God about it? Your NOT. come on, the scripture says draw near to God and HE will draw near to you. Not He will chase you, I think. You gotta make a petition, and put it to Him everyday, or every fourth day. something like that. with prayer and thanksgiving. Don't sit in a corner waiting: go to Church, learn to listen to the Holy Spirit by praying and reading God's word. delight yourself in the Lord and HE will give you the desires of your heart., its in psalms I think. Small testimony, I didn't really want a wife, I was wanting to be a monk. Yes a monk... not a monkey. anyway I had a problem with lust, obedience, poverty, actually all the qualification of monkishness. So I seriously started praying for a wife about the age of 23 then it was not until about 4 years later that one day I caught a train, I actually missed my first train, and sat in a random seat, then after about 7 stops a woman sat down next to me, opened a bible and the rest is 29 years of marriage. I can't say I recommend ANYBODY gets married, Man, women have got cycles and the FULL moon comes out and you bump heads on money, work etc etc and all sorts of stuff and its a wonder anybody is married at all, of course you see it in the news all the time. My advice to all is you have to accept your brother or sister as they are, even though you are married to them you don't own them, and keep your own faith in order. What keeps us together most of all is knowing that God brought us together. Our Christian Faith is like glue. It is nice not to be alone, to talk to one another and eat the same stuff and go on holidays together and go to church etc etc instead of living in a single bed apartment with an empty fridge and a TV for company. But, I am so glad that Jesus says in heaven we are like the angels and don't get given in marriage or marry. once in a lifetime is enough.