Hi all, I'm married to a great man, we are blessed with a very happy marriage. We have 3 boys and we are blessed financially. Currently we are living in the states. Years ago i was in a relationship with a psychopath who did not want me. We met online like 7 years ago. I'm a Singaporean and was living in Singapore back then. He is from the US and is an American. The relationship last for 1yr before i start to drift away after so many stupid judgements he said to me regarding the us visa issue, for ex: I'm using him in order to get a us visa. Which is NOT TRUE. I loved him and at that time I don't care where I would stay long as I can be with him. I have to admit its not easy to maintain a long distance relationship. He made a trip to meet me in Singapore one time only for 1 month. Short story, I terminated the relationship, after he made a confession that he was once sentenced to jail for raping a girl (I believe God has shown his dark secret to save me). Bc of the distance, I broke up with him on an email. This is where the problem starts. The next day, I received few emails from his friends saying that I'm nothing but a cheap whore and many other insulting words. I decided to shut off our communication and I completely ignored him. Pretending that he is not exist. I thought I could live in peace and was hoping he has moved on. Until I found out from a friend of mine (who knows him) that he stalked me. He tried to ruin my career he sent email to my previous supervisor saying alot of bad things about me (thx god I wasn't working there when it happens), he called my mom, he sent his friends to call my family, he contacted my cousin and sent him my sexual pic I was made only for him, he contacted alot of my friends and said alot of bad things about me. Oh god, to many unbelievable things he has done to me. He checked on my fb, myspace, he checked on my hubby's fb and myspace as well (and we have set their private security setting extra high, and put his email into our black list, deleted his friends from our list) when he knew that we are planned on moving to the states, he once again made a trip to Singapore, went to The US Embassy, made a report that I shall not getting a visa bc of what I've done to him (eventually I've got my immigrant visa in less than 3 weeks) somehow, he always knows the update about my life. he knows about my kids, and congrats me via email after my 1st, 2nd, and 3rd son was born. I never replied to those emails. so far, HE HAS BEEN STALKING ME FOR 6YEARS AND HE IS STILL STALKING ME UP TO THIS MOMENT. He just doesnt stop and I'm so sick of him, I really hate him and I want him to stop stalking me and leave me and my family alone!! What do I have to do, I am mentally tired. My husband has filed a police report. But should I take a legal action? Should I send him to jail one more time? I doubt that a restraining order can stop this man from stalking me. How to stop this man? Pray for him?