Bondman...........I do not understand why this conversation makes you sad. Ihave read nothing that should cause you to feel that way. There is my opinion shared understanding on this subject and no amount of love or feelings or thoghts will change what one belieives. IMO there has been more than enough love, and understanding about others here on this subject. Not everyone will come to believe what we think to be true. Again, if you want to speak in tongues, then do so, but that does not mean that we all have to do so. God bless you and heal you in Jesus name!