I will try to make this short: I had/have a crush on a guy who is not a Christian. Not only that, but there are other reasons I don't think he's "right" for me. However, it seems like I'm seeing more and more of him, hanging out as friends and such. we are becoming closer friends each day. Although I intellectually know it's not right, I still can't help but have feelings for him. It is painful to me to hear him talk about other girls, flirt with other girls, and just not be into me when we're hanging out as friends. That's why I want to stay away from him. My inclination is to be mean and rude so that the person moves away. But I know that's not Christianly. How do I go about this? How do you not be a friend.