Hots on for nowhere Hi everybloody. I'm 20, male and in the Air Force. I'm about to be stationed in Germany for 2 years. I have this problem where I get really lonely. I have a TON of great friends (dudes and girls alike) but I'm not dating anyone. I know that I'm young and that I need to focus on my relationship with god because my life is still rapidly changing. I often become gripped with an overwhelming sense of loneliness (the kind single dudes get) and I sometimes am seized by an irrational fear that I'll never meet any girls that I can settle down with and that I'll be alone forever. The thought of going to Germany scares me a little, that I'll be there for two years and be REALLY lonely. I want to not care and to not even think about girls right now, that's my problem. What can I do to shake this? What does God say about it? To anyone who decides to lend their advice, thank you very much.