Remember that Holidays are great times to practice our love walk toward family members not convinced that we do actually Love Jesus. We never know how spiritual a person really is until we get that video tape of them spending the day at home with family. I encourage everyone not to mention past money owed, or past grudges. When I was young my mom and her sister (aunt) would fight over the time someone grabbed someones blanket at a camping trip we were suppose to be enjoying. I think my mom by mistake took my cousins blanket for one of us boys. This upset my mom's sister. I don't really remember much about all those past get together but I do remember that blanket argument and I do remember the few times my mom got drunk. Lets put all the family stuff aside and give family the Love of God shed abroad in our hearts that they may also remember that years later. How we represent Jesus may not seem to have mattered in the present, but I can tell you that 30 years later it would have mattered in a young boys life who is typing this right now. God bless everyone. Michael.