Good Or Bad?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by Jesus Freak, Jan 24, 2014.

  1. Is it good or bad to have a celebrity crush? I have two: Celine Dion(she's married) , and LeAnn Rimes(married too).

    I think it's good cause I know I will never have them. And of course bad, cause of God and all that. But, I think it's more good than bad. It's just a little fun. Lots of people do it. And no, I wouldn't jump off a bridge if everyone else did.

    And another question: is it also okay if someone had a crush on a fictional character in a book? It's okay by me, cause they aren't real whatsoever.
  2. I think everyone has crushes, but it's important what we do with that... are we lusting? How far do we take this crush? Also, when someone is married, I think they are off limits for crushes because to be with them would be adultery.
  3. Yes it would be adultery. But, I am a private citizen, and they are celebs. I won't get them at all.
  4. Do you ever imagine being with them?
  5. Actually I have. Is that adultery? If it is, I will stop.
  6. Matthew 5:27-28:
    27 Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
    28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

    So, there is your answer. Also, didn't you say your profile pic is of her son? I would be careful. I love your honesty and willingness to repent, though!
  7. So, it's adultery for sure. How do I stop thinking about Celine in that way then?
  8. Got a wife?
  9. Maybe you should set your heart on God's plan for a wife? Problem is we have to start obeying Him for His plan to come to fruition...

    Not saying that you are not capable; perhaps an adjustment of focus for the heart?
  10. If you're going to ask God for a wife, be VERY VERY SPECIFIC as to what you ask for,
    He has a sense of humor (that we sometimes do not share).

    Remember to be careful what you wish for, you may get it.
  11. Have you guys not seen what I look like? I will upload a pic of me for you to look at.
  12. Well, I have had an epiphany about that not too long ago-it is not the outside of the cup the LORD deals with...

  13. Please tell me what you thought I looked like while I upload my pic. I honestly want to know.
  14. Go to my twitter account and click on the tweet that just says me. That's me.
  15. I can't click on anything... there isn't anything.

    I thought you looked like your old profile pic, remember? :p Then I thought it was your kid.
  16. Perhaps it is not good in an absolute sense, but in a relative sense it is probably a normal and healthy thing. Let me make a helpful analogy. In an absolute sense many sports, such as football, are probably not good. Yet, since sports and competition are a civilized outlet for our natural aggression, it seems to me that sports are a relative good. Or let me try another analogy. In an absolute sense, sadomasochism does not seem to be good. And yet, in the context of a loving, committed relationship it might be good to have somebody with which you can share your deepest sexual desires in a safe, loving space.

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