I have decided to go ahead and get the vasectomy. I will have to put it on my credit card, but it is the only way we are going to do birth control and make sure that we have no more than two kids. We were at her Ob appointment last Thursday and they asked her if she would want her tubes tied if for some reason a c-section had to be performed to deliver the baby. She said absolutely not and that it is all up to me on getting a vasectomy. So the only way birth control is going to happen is if I do it. So I made the decision to have it done. Just waiting till a few weeks after the baby is born (any day now) so that I am not possibly out of commission due to the vasectomy and unable to help. Any encouragement would be appreciated.