I found this thing out about 2 weeks ago. God doesn't choose the spouse for the person. Why? Because first of all, that would be forcing, and God never forces. Second, this thing about God choosing the spouse for the person by Himself is the soulmate theory, which is New Age, not Christian. Also, I found these websites: http://joedarko.com/2012/11/29/does-god-choose-your-spouse-for-you/ http://www.huffingtonpost.com/emily...t-have-a-perfect-match-for-you_b_2238475.html http://lorialexander.blogspot.fi/2013/11/did-god-choose-your-spouse.html And these articles are pretty much true things. By the way, I found a lot of single guys of my type (yes, very peaceful British guys who never prank, rarely joke, are older than me and at least 6"1/185cm tall and have black long hair, and pale or light skin), lalalalalalalalala. :3 And now 1 guy who is my type is Interested in me, but he is Ukrainian living in Britain. But he is pretty much the same peaceful guy who is older than me and at least 6"1/185cm tall and has black long hair. Now I know that I will find someday the one who I want and no one may tell me that which man I can marry. And look, I am really sorry for having a crush on Jesus once, but really, there is nothing wrong with that, and I never lusted about Jesus and I won't because I am smart and I respect Him, so you should never bash or hurt me if I had a crush on Him. I know other Christian females who have had a crush on Him. And also, I hope you won't slander me this time. Slander is saying that I am not a child of God, spiritually healthy, or that my things are spiritually unhealthy, or any other things that are not true about me. I want peace in this website. But if I disagree with you strongly, then please, don't answer me. I also don't want you to make other people become to your side when having debates and hurting me. And Mitspa and Allie give me good advice and they usually agree with my things... But the thing is that God always lets people choose the one they want, and He doesn't choose the spouse for a person by Himself, but He can help only if the person is unsure what person they want or if the person had problems with relationships and past marriages. And I know that I can describe the person of my dreams and then one day He'll give me the one I want. And my type of guy is not impossible. My type of guy is a typical human, not an alien.