So my girlfriend just told me that she's already given oral sex to two of her ex's .. and I'm not sure how to feel. A little background information: I'm not Christian, but she has been Christian since birth (raised in Christian family). Although I'm not Christian, I have a lot of similar faith and morals like Christians since I consider myself more Agnostic Theist. We're both seniors in high school, and many of my friends are Atheists so don't care for such things. I believe in the entire "sex after marriage" and "as few relationships as possible" idea, so I would say I have higher morals compared to non-Christians. So back to the problem .. I know a lot of people are all about forgiving and forgetting but this was quite a shocker to me. My girlfriend has liked me since first year high school, but I always rejected her. A year or two ago, I actually asked her to pick between me or one of her ex's she did it with (at the time she didnt do it yet), and she picked him. These two things happened before her baptism, which was just this summer. She said her baptism has changed a lot for her .. but I still feel like she's not loyal and is just saying that "She truly loves me more than anyone before, and for the first time actually feels like she wants to marry her bf".. Sorry for the long story, I tried asking on a pickup website .. but realized it was a dumb idea since they were mostly Atheists and didn't have the same ideologies as me ... thanks to anybody who can help ..