Hi Everyone, I have a serious question about the Golden Rule. As it is something that our Lord personally said, I do my best to follow it. But here is the question: Is this quote from our Lord something that can't really be applied when we are dealing with the opposite gender? On a personal basis, I'm finding that it hasn't work out too well for me when it comes to relationships. I've heard it said that women are a different species, but can we honestly put an * to what our Lord says and create our own subset of rules? I'm not looking for any gender quarrels or wars and I hope it doesn't descend into one. I honestly want to understand this because I'm really worn out. And I am hoping for christian ideas, not what some secular psychologist or columnist tells the world. Thanks!