Divorce I dont know if any one will have any advice for me but here it goes. I am dating a man who is divorced and he and his exwife have a young son. His ex is treating him so poorly and with such hate. She calles herself the perfect mother and christian yet treats him with such hate and cruelty. She calls him frequently crying and telling him that he needs to hear her cry because he did this to her. Or she will send texts telling him what an aweful person he is. She will send 4-5 page emails to him telling him how terrible of a person he is and that she cant believe what he has done to her. It has been over a year since she left him and she is currently dating and choosing to love someone else. She dangles their son in front of his father in a way that shows she has power and that she could destroy him and take his child from him. The man I am dating is no longer the man she was married to. A year ago he handed his life over to God asking him to take control because he made a mess of things. His ex refuses to see this change in him. And anyone who tells her he is changed she states he has "the wool pulled over their eyes". He usually doesnt respond to her hateful comments that have even reached the point of telling him that he uses faith to convience people that he is changed. Her words are so hateful to him and somehow she still calls herself a Godly woman. I dont understand how she can justify that. I have not yet met the woman but she hates me but I dont know what to tell my boyfriend to comfort him. He is always telling himself that what she is saying is not of God and they are just lies. That satan is just using her to get to him. I just feel helpless in this situation, I have no words to share with him - just all the support in the world. But even that only seems to go so far as her words will cut him deep. Does anyone have any light to shed on this subject, its a terrible situation to be in and Im at a loss. I care so much for this man and I know his ex was hurt but how can she justify what she is doing. Sorry for the lengthy post, if anyone has time to read it I would love to hear any thoughts.