Hi guys, I am so sorry I am posting with such a silly problem. I got officially engaged last night, my fiancee met my parents, and after I dropped him off at home he presented me my engagement ring -- it's a sterling silver band. It's plain, and it is very shiny but it looks more like a wedding band. I told him I wanted a white gold engagement ring with a diamond, I don't care about the size of the diamond. I was planning on getting him white gold for his wedding band as well - I didn't say anything about the ring but I don't like to wear it. I know material things don't count and he's a godly man and all. But I cannot help but wonder if this is how it's going to be on our marriage - he doesn't earn much money around $11 an hour - but is this a sign I'm just gonna keep getting the "cheap" version of everything? He keeps reassuring me we won't live in poverty but I'm don't think I believe him until I sort out a realistic budget with him (especially after children come, we already said I wouldn't be working). How do I approach this money subject without making him feel bad???