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Discussion in 'Marriage and Relationships' started by NajAniLu, Nov 25, 2013.


How should this situation be handled?

Poll closed Dec 16, 2013.
  1. Should she naturally cut all ties

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  2. He should demand she cut all ties

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  3. She should be OK to choose her friends

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  4. He's just insecure

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  1. Couple meets, falls in love are waiting until marriage to have sex. But, they both have a sexual past. She tells him that she had a threesome with a married couple yet she remains friends with the wife. How should he handle this information and how should she handle this after sharing the info? ? Should he demand she cut all ties?
  2. Cut!

    They will persecute…just be ready to answer...

    Just so happen I just read 1 Peter : )

    Seems this verse is mentioned:
    1PET 3:15 But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear:

    In reference to this verse:
    1PET 4:3 For the time past of our life may suffice us to have wrought the will of the Gentiles, when we walked in lasciviousness, lusts, excess of wine, revellings, banquetings, and abominable idolatries:
    1PET 4:4 Wherein they think it strange that ye run not with them to the same excess of riot, speaking evil of you:
  3. A threesome is an extremity of sexual sin. Was it a once off? Is she ashamed of it? Was she saved before it?

    We are all capable of extreme sins. Especially in this day. Hence scripture like Matt 24:22. The concern for you is the regularity of her dipping into such things. If there is no remorse or shame, it was her hearts intent and not a big mistake. A Christian will see that as a big mistake and be begging God for forgiveness. The hearts intent of someone who loves Jesus is holiness. They will be ashamed to even mention it. You need to gauge this. The bottom line is simply she cannot be trusted if there is little sincerity in repentance and no fear of God. We shipwreck our relationship with God when we continue in extremity of sins.

    The fact that she has not cut ties is concerning, duh?

    Sorry bud, I will be praying for you!
  4. It's in the past now. I would live and let live. However, bear in mind that her friend could be a liability for an affair later, so be careful. Good luck

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