Hello, I would like to address something that I have been noticing for some time now. There seems to be a common way of thinking that says that God has one particular person lined up for you to marry. That there is one perfect person prepared just for you. I don't know if I believe this to be true since I don't see this idea presented in the bible. What I see in the bible is: a believer should only marry another believer, that they should not be unequally yoked with another believer that is living in sin, and that they should not marry another believer that has been divorced unless it was over adultery. Other than those reasons it appears that you can marry anyone. It does not say or even seems to imply that God has a particular person prepared for you. I believe since God is love and we are supposed to walk in love...therefore making it an action, that we can choose who to love, thus choose who to marry. What are your thoughts and beliefs on this?