My question is what is my position on a cheating husband? I am a born again christian, baptized and Holy Spirit filled, I read the bible and practiced doing good and serving people and worshipping God and praying all day. Today I heard my husband on the phone talking to a women, i could hear her voice clearly. My husband said to her that he will solve all her problems and take her out to dinner. She said she couldn't really hear him so she would talk to him later. He saw me standing there, i ask him who was he talking to, he said he was talking to Glen, a friend of ours. I told him i heard a women voice. He will not talk to me about it. He has women friends and I'm not comfortable with him hanging out with women and giving them lots of money. He is not a christian and threaten to leave me if I continue to serve Jesus. Now I feel I should leave him because he's having relationship with several women over our 19 yr marriage. I want to be our obedient to God and I will be obedient. I just feel like he's not honoring our marriage and being disrespectful of it. I don't have a pastor to talk to. I just joined a church, but have not made any real connections yet except one lady who is awesome.